Tough Love: Taking a Stand with My 5 Kids

Sometimes, being a mom means putting your foot down—firm, no-nonsense, and with a whole lot of tough love. I’ve always believed in giving my kids love, patience, and explanations, but there’s a line. And that line is when their behaviour crosses into chaos—especially when it’s happening outside the safe walls of home.

Let me tell you, my kids are brilliant bounce-backers. They’re lively, they’re funny, and honestly, they’re good at bouncing back from most things. But lately? Some of their behaviour at school has been... well, let’s just say, a little WILD.

I’ve watched them pushing boundaries, talking back, and testing limits—all very normal things, I get that. But what isn’t normal is the amount of blunt honesty I want to dish out sometimes when I hear about their antics. No more being their push-over, no more pretending everything is fine. They are capable of better behaviour, and it's high time I took a stand.

This isn’t about punishment for punishment’s sake. It’s about showing them that boundaries matter—at school, with friends, and everywhere else. They need to know that being a good kid isn’t just about being cute or funny; it’s about respecting others, listening when it counts, and understanding that their actions have weight.

So here’s my motto now: No more shit.
No more pretending everything’s okay when it’s not. No more turning a blind eye to bad behaviour. I’m going to call it out, stand firm, and make sure they understand that respect, kindness, and good manners are non-negotiable.

They’ll still be kids who bounce, jump, and maybe push my buttons. But I’ll also be the parent who’s not afraid to give a stern look, set the rules, and back them up. Because ultimately, I want them to grow into respectful, responsible young people—and that means tough love now, so they don’t get lost in the chaos later.

It’s not about being mean. It’s about being real. And about knowing that the most loving thing I can do for my children is to hold them accountable and guide them in the right direction.

Because at the end of the day, I believe in my kids. I believe in their potential to be kind, respectful, and capable of so much more. And I’m done with the behaviour that doesn’t match that potential.

No more shit. Time to be the parent they need—and deserve.